首页 > 新闻 > 正文

明天我依然爱你

Women's Day Special: Alia, Deepika, Anushka, Priyanka And Kareena On Things That Matter_我的网站

放牛班的春天

一 | If there is one thing that almost all Indian's get influenced by in some way or the other, it is Bollywood. Today, as we celebrate International Women's Day, we have dived into our archives to find quotes by the leading ladies of Bollywood on things that matter. Be it beauty standards, pay disparity, being ambitious, motherhood, or simply the choices one makes, Alia Bhatt, Anushka Sharma, Deepika Padukone, Priyanka Chopra Jonas and Kareena Kapoor Khan say things that'll surely inspire you and help you navigate in a society that has for years been male dominated. Hear from your favourites... Kareena Kapoor Khan on taking it easy post 40 "In a journey of 20 years, if you’ve not matured as a person and as an artiste, you’ve not learnt anything. I started at the age of 17. Ek alag si energy hoti hai at that time. You’re like listen I can do anything. But, today I’m 40 and I’m like… I can’t. I’m in Zen mode. I just want to do my work. Even if I do one film at a time, I’ll give my best to that. But at 17, you want to be in every film and just kill it. The fire is still there but the flames were a lot higher at that time.” Priyanka Chopra Jonas on being looked down for being ambitious "I’m destiny’s favourite child and I believe that. I believe there’s a hand on my head, which guides me in the right direction. What I do is that I recognise opportunity. Not all have that ability. It might not bang on your door, it might just walk past you. But you should be able to make something out of it. That’s called being ambitious! And I’m proudly ambitious. Sadly, ambition has become a bad word! People say, ‘Haye woh badi ambitious hai!’" Deepika Padukone on pay disparity "Especially, when wage disparity has been such an important conversation, I’m glad it’s finally come to the fore. I’m also proud of it because I’ve earned it, not demanded it. It’s backed by the work I’ve put in over the years. Even if I’d demanded it, nobody is a fool to pay you that kind of money for no reason. Where bridging the wage disparity between actors and actresses is concerned, we still have a long way to go. But this is definitely a landmark moment." Anushka Sharma on motherhood "I would pick motherhood over my career. People are saying that we believe in feministic ideology and I’m saying that I do too. But you cannot say that choosing your career is being feminist and choosing motherhood isn’t. That’s wrong. The ability to choose is called being liberated." Alia Bhatt on being emotional "A 20-somethng shouldn’t believe she’s a poster girl of pure positivity and constant joy. That’s something I don’t want to put out there. I’m not a negative person. But I’ve a lot of doubts. I have confidence issues sometimes. And I’m not always smiling. I’m not always calm. I get stressed out. I get scared. That’s an important emotion that one should feel. I feel my emotions fully. Like even if I’ve got a pimple, I’ll cry." See Also: Alia Bhatt’s family reacts to pictures of Alia and Ranbir Kapoor’s supposed wedding card。曾凭借《倚天屠龙记》“小昭”一角深入人心的新加坡艺人陈秀丽，在49岁迎来人生新突破。

二 | 近日，她在社交平台晒出学士毕业照，正式宣告顺利拿下健康科学学士学位，用五年坚持践行了“不怕慢，只怕站”的人生信条。据悉，定居香港、现居上海的陈秀丽，因闲暇时间增多，萌生了系统学习的想法。偶然了解到美国加州线上大学的线上授课模式后，她果断报名健康科学专业，开启了中年求学之路。相较于多数同学三四年即可完成的学业，陈秀丽的求学过程格外坎坷，她曾遭遇两门课程不及格，加之年纪渐长出现老花眼、看不懂英文专业术语、思维灵活性下降等问题，学习阻力重重。同时，老旧马来语文凭的翻译认证、陌生的线上学习操作，也为她增添了诸多难题。面对困境，陈秀丽始终未曾放弃，秉持“只求完成，不求完美”的心态稳步推进，常常熬夜撰写作业与论文，每日仅休息三四个小时，最终耗时五年多顺利完成学业。求学期间，她并未暂停事业发展，兼顾拍戏、直播带货、拉丁舞教学等多项工作，生活充实且自律。在学习过程中，陈秀丽也曾尝试借助AI代写作业，但很快发现捷径无法收获真知，便摒弃投机心态，坚持自主研读、独立完成学业。她坦言，终身学习贵在谦卑，切忌倚老卖老，持续学习与思考，既能充盈自我，也能保持思维活跃。这段特殊的求学经历，也让她对育儿和生活有了全新认知。